E is for Emotion
When I sat down to write, Money is a Matter of the Heart, I knew there was a disconnect between the huddled middle class masses and the wealthy. I believe I understood the difference between the "Haves and Have Nots"; EMOTION. I’ve written several blog articles about emotional spending and I find that many of my client’s emotions about filing bankruptcy start with shame and guilt over facing bankruptcy. Feeling such powerful emotions usually puts folks in a overwhelmed state of being, such that they cannot make a decision while their financial world continues to crumble all around them. Worse yet, they tend to make poor financial decisions, like using savings or retirement accounts to pay their unsecured creditors to avoid being contacted or bombarded with collection calls.
Emotional decisions are usually to avoid pain or seek pleasure. When you really let that statement sink into your bones, you just might stand a chance to transform how you relate to money. Money is an object, just like any other. It’s the emotional relationship and how you relate to money that makes all the difference. Emotionally disconnecting from money requires you take certain actions and be a good steward with your money.
Action Steps Toward Good Financial Stewardship
1. Pre-spending your money each month.
This means set up an income sheet with all your sources of income each month, then deduct all your payroll deductions for taxes, insurance, retirement, and insurance, etc. The bottom line is your net income.
Next, make a budget of every monthly expense you have including rent/mortgage, auto, utilities, groceries, clothing, entertainment, charity, insurance, property taxes, car registration, kids, etc. For the annual bills that come only once per year, take that payment and divide it by 12 and include the monthly amount into your budget.
Be sure you’re setting aside money into savings, including the monthly amounts for those annual bills, so the money is there when they arrive.
2. Consult with your Tax Professional
If you don’t have an accountant or CPA, you may be in trouble. They’re not as expensive as you think and many offer a complimentary consultation to help you decide whether they can assist you. What is most important is that you adjust your income tax withholding so that you maximize your income instead of setting yourself up for a huge tax refund. Don’t give the IRS a FREE loan of your money. Put it to work for you instead. Likewise, you don’t want to owe money to the IRS, so it’s important to work with a professional who can help you estimate your withholding appropriately.
3. Create a 5 Year Financial Vision Plan.
If you’re dealing with DEBT and you won’t be able to be debt FREE within 5 years, or your budget is so tight that you can’t pay your debts at all, then being a financially responsible good steward requires you strongly consider filing bankruptcy to start fresh.
Under Chapter 7 of the Bankruptcy Code you qualify by having no disposable income to pay your debts at all. Under Chapter 13 of the Bankruptcy Code, we can help you obtain a 3-5 year payment plan to pay all of your disposable income to your creditors and any remaining balances at the end of your Plan are permanently discharged. So, you’ll be DEBT FREE in 5 years or less!
They are numbers and alone have no emotion. It is only what each of us brings emotionally to the situation that can change the course of your life forever. This is the financial lesson many of us must learn that will move this country out of debt for good.
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Other bankruptcy alphabet words beginning with the letter E:
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